Mean People Are Necessary

     I hope the title got your interest and maybe even raised your eyebrow! Yes, I did type correctly and I do believe that mean people are necessary. Think of a mean person you have met and, if you used the experience as a learning tool, you should have gained the following:
  
     1. Model for Inappropriate Behavior
     2. Self-control
     3. Resilience
     4. Tolerance
     5. Sense of Humor
     6. Respect from Others
     7. Perseverance
     8. Wisdom
     9. Maturity
    10. Sympathy
    11. Compassion
    12. Gratitude
    13. Acceptance
    14. Pride
    15. Knowledge of One's Self

     I am sure you can add to the list, and please do! I like the last one on the list the best- knowledge of one's self. When you encounter a mean person, you become aware of exactly who you are and what you believe in, because that 'mean person' differs with your ideals and visions dramatically. However, a mean person cannot agree to disagree, because they have not acquired enough knowledge & confidence of their own self to surround him/herself with differing thoughts or outlooks.
     If you remember this the next time you meet a mean person, it should be easy to move forward. And, be thankful, for you are confident in knowing who you are :-)